Forget Me Not: How RAG Turns Unlearning Into Precision Forgetting
A user asks to be forgotten. The recommender team opens the dashboard, sighs quietly, and faces the usual menu of unpleasant options. Retrain the model from scratch, which is clean in theory and expensive in practice. Partition the data so only part of the system needs rebuilding, which sounds elegant until collaborative signals leak across groups like gossip at a small wedding. Or approximate the user’s influence with gradients and influence functions, which is efficient until similar users get nudged around because the model learned their tastes together. ...