FadeMem: When AI Learns to Forget on Purpose
Memory is easy to sell. Give an AI agent a bigger context window. Add a vector database. Store every user preference, meeting note, support ticket, and half-correct instruction that ever passed through the system. Then call it “persistent memory,” because apparently a drawer full of old receipts is now intelligence. The problem is that agents do not fail only because they forget. They also fail because they remember too much, too flatly, and too obediently. Old facts compete with new ones. Repeated but trivial details crowd out rare but important constraints. Retrieval brings back something semantically similar but temporally wrong. The agent sounds confident because the database found something. Very helpful. Very dangerous. ...